I think he seems like a nice guy. There is a movie named "40 yea

talked about a 40 years old guy who never had sex before finally found his true love. Maybe your friend is just like this type of guy. Although my hu*****and and I both married once before, but we didn't have intimacy before we engaged. We are both old fashion people.

If you afraid he wants to take advantage from you while you stay in his house, then, you can tell him ahead that you are a old fashion person. Or just reject him when he try to get close to you.

Westerners are just like us, the Chinese. Everyone is an individual.