depend on what type of dating you have....

1. on first date, it is better to just have cofffee. man pay it. you don't want a man spend too much on you because you maybe don't like him.
after fiurst date, it is depend on age. Here is the chart for you:
same age or younger than you, pay 45%
1 year old, pay 40%
2 year old, pay 30%
3 year old, pay 20%
4 year old, pay 10%
5 year old and above, pay nothing

2. first a few times, man maybe do that, but after merried, you are on your own. never wait for him to open a door for you.
3. DATE =HANGOUT. The point is wether he wants a long term relationship with you . you can ask what he is looking for.
4. yes.