回复：不同居决不该结婚，不同居你怎么能真正了解他呢。

Thanks a lot for your insight.

I agree with you on sharing the cost. We share our dating cost. I just thought he shouldn't expect me to pay his mortgage and house insur if we are still boyfriends and girl friends.

He has a townhouse about 2,000 sqft. He has a room mate already. He said most of my furiture will have to go to storage (about 100 /month) because his house is very much occupied. Once he suggested me to throw them away (he is not kidding), but I said I wanted to keep them for future use. Then we come up with the storage idea.

It was not an ideal situation for me. But I just wanted to be close to him. But I am so afraid to make the wrong movement.