they have a kid

verbal abuse happens in life, life is never perfect. Can not disvorce just because hu*****and said something. I believe relationship is interactive; now the hu*****and plays the bad part and wife plays the torelant angel part. How about reverse it? let the hu*****and family suffer for a while.

If we have a choice, who do not want to be an angel? Life forces to be 泼妇 sometimes, and guess what, you may find a stronger you and a better life.

If this still does not work, then divorce. But not divorce without trying.