I do not mean she has fault, but many JJMM have hard time

to get over it. I think this is woman's emotion weakness. Nothing wrong about her sad or break-down.

But nobody has perfect life, looking ahead and get happy life again is the key. Who can gurantee there is no wave or darkness in the whole life. I jst feel sad if JJMM has hard time to get over the horrible past. I do not see it makes semse to let personal sad past ruin the whole life(e.g. do not trust love or sincereity...)