To be honest, I wouldn't care less what others said

about 外嫁女 or 绝对不能娶非处女

Whom does a Chinese woman marry to is her choice, that is not other unrelated people’s concern

Personally, I think if someone could marry her high school sweet heart and stay in love with him forever would be perfect. But life is not always perfect. It is possible that we make mistakes, or wrong judgments. But life still goes on. If there are some Chinese men think that they only like to marry virgin, that is their choice. I respect other's choice. On the other hand, not all the Chinese guys are that narrow minded. I haven't seen much Chinese guys came to this forum to criticize Chinese women married guys from other race. If I was a Chinese man, I would rather watch TV with my wife/gf than come over to post some nonsense.

At last, I would like to express my gratitude for your understanding of 外嫁女, even I think the name 外嫁女 is very funny. Did people used to call all the married women "外嫁女" in the old time? I think that you worry a bit too much for us, I don’t give a damn for what people talk about 外嫁女.