I think that you are thinking too much. Forget about

him, and enjoy your own family life. I think how you acted might really bother him. That is why he said how much he loved his wife in the public. This kind of things happened to me before, I had to announce to the guy how much I loved my hu*****and, and how capable was my hu*****and... Bla bla bla. The good thing is that there is nobody know what is going on, besides you and him. Forget about all these, and try to love your hu*****and and yourself more.