她没碰到合适的人，所以就说不考虑结婚but she hook up with

wrong men, knowing they are wrong men for her. Why? That is the part I fail to draw a logic conclusion.

I am not being judgemental. I love her story. I just hope to make sense out of such type of person. 我赞赏自由的灵魂，但是总是理解不了为什么她/他们要让自己吃那么多苦（比如这种多人的性关系对身体还是很危险的，即使带着套套,感情上的苦就不用提了）。可能我还是俗。人家可能不觉着苦。