You are funny

But let's not laugh at butterfly's expense. It is really hard to find an ideal man. We all went through that, looking for that person. Do we have the courage to leave that person if someday we find out this person is not worthy? I think butterfly will come to her senses. She just want to hold onto something like a drowning person holding a straw now. Once she realized that she is standing on a dry land with her own strength, she will realize that he is just a straw.

Butterfly, what you described is a typical case of he is not into you.