I can't agree with you more...

本来也不是朋友，what do you call that in English? She is just a chick the guy hooks up with, a flesh messager when he is horny :-) This is a "friend" with benefit.

A smart woman would never sleep with a friend, or at least would never take a "friend with benefit" so seriouly. Problem is, a smart woman doesn't have the same problem.Well, yes, I am saying she was stupid, and yes, she still is.