Did you read the book, he is not into you

I think that book makes some sense. You know, love is to enjoy. If you guess too much, you lose all the fun. It is not a practical decision to make. If you enjoy being with him, then try your best. One word, if a guy is into you, you will know, and you don't need to second guess. Being there, done that, don't drag yourself through the mud of insecurity. Or maybe, you will think, he will change his mind, he will be more into me. From all the cases I know, it has not happened to me or any of my friends.