我想Eliza Bennet还是象黛玉多一点。 They are both very

sharp, and liked to challenge the social standards/rules. Jane, Eliza's sister acted more like 宝钗. they both try to be a agreeable person. After all, there are not much comparison between the characters in two novels. 宝钗 and Liz were raised in totally different culture and sociaty. We can’t imagine either 宝钗 or 黛玉 could walk 3 miles on the country road like Eliza did

Perhaps, you like to compare yourself with 宝钗. I would think you are much more capable than her, at least, you could find a aristocrats by yourself :)))