If he is OK for you, you have to ask yourself

whether you can accept his behavior or not. When he tells you your behavior is OK with them, he means that's what he wants from you too. It's up to you to let him do what he wants or be firm with him. Buttom line is, can you take it if he keeps doing the same thing? Most of people can not change their behavior after 30, but they will get better with women as they age.