When I say slow down, I am speaking of really a long period

of time.
Trust me, this young hottie is yours in the end. Just depends on whether you want it or how you want it.;-) ------ he just needs some time to evaluate and convince himself you are the best. But I am sure you are his best option.
Play it gracefully, enjoy the game.
Man, I wish I was still in the market. Uncertainty and ambiguity is just so much fun.