Thanks everyone! I am doing very well

financially, according to my financial planner, he said I am the top 1% of the women from 35 to 44 years old in this country (I am 39). Well, I am flattered. I always work hard and invest well with considerate planning. My daughter's father hasn't paid me anything (he chose to divorce me because I refused to quit my job and have more children, especially sons for him. BTW, he is a Chinese), and I haven't persued that in court with him. I would rather use that time and energy to build up my own life instead.

But I don't judge people by their financial situation. This C I like very much, I only know that he has a good job, yet he asked me some questions on how to invest before. I don't choose a man, or a friend based on material stuff, but he must be well-educated and has a good job and being healthy :)

Some of you thought this is more like a friendship. I agree. Yet it does have some flirts over there which he encourages me to take it easy all the time - sometimes I feel embarrassed and he sensed that. Not sure if this could be developed into something romantic. That's why I ask help here :)

And, I think the girls here are very smart, nice, funny and full of charisma. I admire almost all of you (except some IDs that are mean). I also respect and appreciate the advices you provide me here. Thank you so much for your time to read my terrible-written story :)