Thanks I appreciate it. Actually he also reminded me not to take

he was one of the guys who comforted me when I broke up with the recent "date." He was the guy who used the metaphor of a man "liking and getting tired of sugar." He said that men are just wired like that. They are rarely satisfied with just one woman. And by the time he regrets and come back to sugar, it is too late. It was then he said that he thought I am good and stylish. I guess i started to wonder about us then. 
I guess similarly, I shouldn't take him serioulsy. Whatever. It's nothing more important than my work but it's taking my time. I should be more rational.

Thanks for the kind words.