First of, don't take chance of unprotected
Sex. There is a recent report from one of the BC health Care authorities to say that there were 35 HIV positive cases after a year's random test for people admitted to hospital. Those are "low risk " people like you and me who were very posittive that they will never get a negative report. Secondly contact the guy first after your first intimacy. He will contact you if he wants to keep going.