Are you saying . . .

that if a person is mistreated and discriminated against at a work place, it is ok for him to steal from the company or worse go postal. Or a wounded veteran comes back from Iraq war and the government doesn't help him even though he scrifices his life for the country.  It is still not okay for him to rob a bank. One should never blame the victim.  If the hu*****and has an issue with their sex life, the right thing to do is to communicate with the wife and try to solve the issue - going to pick a prostitute is never the right way to solve marriage issues.