回复：我比你更惨，我在他的电脑里看到他亲笔所写的juicy details.当场崩溃了。

My situation is worse than you. Your hu*****and may not fell in love with those women. But my wife may had fell in love with that man. Also that man is one manager of her company. If my wife wants to get promotion, or that man wants to show some benifits to my wife, their affair will continue. 

We have more than 15 years of marriage. It is not easy to say divorce without any concerns. Of course, we both have a decent job and income. Any one can survive when one leave. But how are about our living son? It is a diaster for a middle age man.

I plan to give her one year, then decide what we should do.