回复：如果你发信息,他不回,那就说明不合适了.如果他只是天生被动,内向,那你主动些,

he replies. he is very busy at work, sometimes replies delayed. I am not so patient with that. over the time, I stopped initiate the calls.

strangely he has the same complains: I don't pick up the phone 90% when he calls.I don't think that's true. but that tells we are similarly proud and very sensitive if the other does not respond quickly enough.

aren't good match supposed to be easy. we seem to have too much to work out;-(