如果你没有用EAD而是一直保持了你的H1身份

假设你一直保持了H1身份，那么在你的485批准前，你可以回国结婚，然后让你的配偶单独去申请H4 （你用AP回美），或者和配偶一起申请H1/H4，然后凭H1/H4回美国，你的配偶在美国递交485。You can have both AP and H1 visa at the same time, and it is entirely your choice what you want to show the immigration officer at the border when you come back. Using AP alone will not invalidate your H1 status.

你们也可以再结婚后，让配偶选择consular processing, but then she won't be able to come to the US while she waits for her case to be processed. She will have to remain in China until she gets her GC approved.