Help on fraud marriage

I MET A GIRL IN INTERNET AND GOT MARRIED 1.5 YEARS AGO IN CHINA. I BROUGHT HER TO THE STATES LAST SUMMER WITH H4 AND THEN APPLIED FOR I485 TOGETHER. THE STATUS IS PENDING. MY H1 WILL EXPIRES NEXT SUMMER. I WISHED WE WOULD HAVE HAPPY LIFE TOGETHER BASED ON I PLANNED.

HOWEVER, I FOUND SHE IS DOING UNFAITHFUL THINGS BEHIND ME, AND WANTS TO DIVIDE MY PROPERTY (BOUGHT BEFORE MARRIAGE, STILL UNDER MORTGAGE), GET GREEN CARD, AND SOME $$ WHEN DIVORCE. SHE IS NOT WORKING, NO ANY CONTRIBUTION TO THE FAMILY, BUT CAUSES LOTS OF PROBLEMS AND HEADACHE, WHICH IS NOT WHAT I EXPECTED FOR MY LIFE. I TRIED TO TALK TO HER AND SOLVE PROBLEMS, IT NEVER WORKED OUT BECAUSE OF THE DIFFERENCE OF BACKGROUND, EDUCATION, LIFE VALUE, ETC.

I WORK HARD TO SAVE ANY PENNY TO GET HALF OF MY HOUSE. SHE SPENDS JUST LESS THAN 2 YEARS WITH ME AND WANTS TO ENJOY WHAT I EARNED FROM HARD WORKING FOR MANY YEARS, AND SHE ALSO WANTS HER GREEN CARD AND DIVORCE. THIS IS REALLY SCARY.

Xiaobaitu, and any others, is this it? Can you give me a hand?

Many many thanks

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• 这完全取决于你,不用别人帮忙. -i751- ♂ (208 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 17:33:21

• 1000% agree with I751 回复：这完全取决于你,不用别人帮忙. -golfcat72- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 17:55:10

• 很方便！离婚！叫她回中国去！~ -小燕南南飞- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:10:37

• 你们没有孩子吗？生活习惯可能有不同，关键看你们的感情。 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:16:25

• 现在不宜闹翻，否则如果她真的是工于心计的那种人(看来像)很可能 -xiaobaitu- ♀ (22 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:21:01

• 兔Ｍ真是好ＭＭ！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:22:09

• 就因为她工于心计. -I751- ♂ (127 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:22:09

• 顶最后一句. -bbslover- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:46:00

• 不赞成，因为本来一起拿到绿卡是两个人的共同利益，她至少在 -xiaobaitu- ♀ (210 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 08:17:30

• 同意兔兔。我觉得做人别太过好些，..................回复：不赞成，因为本来一起拿到绿卡是两个人的共同利益，她至少 -MPOS- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 09:44:13

• 婚前没有协议，你的财产她有一半份，这没有办法，这是law！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:21:28

• 那婚前的债务呢？是不是也有她一半？ -langxing- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:34:42

• 我的直觉告诉我应该也是！？ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:38:55

• 那就好办了，他正供着房子，债务也有她一半 -langxing- ♂ (18 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:42:24

• 瞎扯，人家要净资产就行了。 -sleepbear- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:13:45

• 伙计上面没错，只是离婚时当然是估计和拆分净资产啰！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:20:07

• 我也是觉得上面二位就像绕圈子一样，把自己都绕进去了 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:16:57

• 她没有工作. -I751- ♂ (36 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:19:22

• 有这一说法？似乎财产宜是夫妻双方共同拥有！除非协议在先。 -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:22:09

• 离婚时法律可以保护没工作的一方 -I751- ♂ (147 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:27:17

• 你们就知道财产财产的，替你们害臊。那我做个比方 -f06li- ♀ (156 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:40:55

• 法官会给这种情况至少一半的家产. -I751- ♂ (200 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:51:41

• 一个看上年轻漂亮，一个看上出国绿卡，就这么简单。 -f06li- ♀ (84 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:56:57

• 那就一个帮拿绿卡,一个不要财产算了. -i751- ♂ (26 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 20:08:48

• 是呀，如果向下面说的，骗人家回国，总觉得对人家有些不公平 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 20:12:53

• 要不楼主请你当调解人吧 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 20:15:30

• ＭＭ高尚，赞一个，但这也生活中的一部分，特别是离婚时，没法回避的事！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 02:47:34

• 哈哈，我也MM了 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 10:56:04

• 你肯定现在挺痛苦的。但我想你当初肯定是看上人家年轻漂亮 -f06li- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:56:01

• 还是多安慰好！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 18:59:49

• 清官难断家务事，我认识一个女孩，也是图能出国， -f06li- ♀ (204 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:08:08

• 这孩子大气，算女中豪杰！ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:19:10

• 修正错误总得付出点代价 -toosad- ♀ (81 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:09:09

• 回复：Help on fraud marriage -jereco- ♂ (141 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:45:55

• 算你狠!:D -bbslover- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:48:22

• 回复：算你狠!:D -Jereco- ♂ (94 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:54:32

• Good job! -bbslover- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/21/2007 postreply 19:59:32

• 替楼主谢谢你奉献出如此宝贵的价格不非的经验！看来他还真找的地方了？ -lyon- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 02:51:01

• 出这种主意的人缺乏头脑，EB家属和亲属移民的485不同，petitioner -xiaobaitu- ♀ (159 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 08:23:22

• 回复：出这种主意的人缺乏头脑，EB家属和亲属移民的485不同，petitioner -jereco- ♂ (208 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 13:35:16

• 赶快离吧兄弟 -kingman- ♂ (66 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 08:22:21

• 7~ l oser and narrow mind -zxcvbnmmlp- ♀ (131 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 10:13:05

• 回复：I had experince and may be helpful to you -Alan9900- ♂ (2820 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 19:19:29

• 回复：回复：I had experince and may be helpful to you -jereco- ♂ (66 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 20:19:56

• Talk with her again. -MMMD- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/22/2007 postreply 20:42:08