Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!!

Maybe I have only one chance to see my mother with lung and heart disease. Both my mother and I think she will pass away in a few months.
But I difficultly decide whether or not go back China, because of 3 reseans:
1. There are 4 heptatitis B in my big family
2. My wife has to take care of 2 sons, one 6 years old, the other one 19 months
3. I will be possible checked, because I transferred here from other State with H1B
In addition, if I get check for visa, you know this year is last year of my H1B, I have to extend H1B with 140 approval (PD 3/22/06).
Please give me your suggestions!!!!!!!
Thanks millions!!!!!!

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• is your wife H1b too? -DO-PERM- ♂ (32 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:22:02

• Both of us are H1 status -pooroldman- ♀ (53 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:31:20

• then it's very safe for u to go back to visit ur mom -DO-PERM- ♂ (75 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:05:40

• No need to extend ur H1b, next May, long time to go -DO-PERM- ♂ (61 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:08:46

• I can't do that, because I am principle GC applicant 回复：then it' -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:11:11

• u r 485 process has not start yet -DO-PERM- ♂ (200 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:15:07

• you mean I can file 485 with H4回复：u r 485 process has not start -pooroldman- ♀ (26 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:40:53

• I guess that's the risk u have to take -DO-PERM- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:38:43

• thanks 回复：I guess that's the risk u have to take -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:45:18

• Extend your _H-1B first, then go back -Suggest!!- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:29:54

• Mother may be gone when I get H1 extension -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:28:24

• don't apply extension for either of you before you travel -gc2020- ♂ (203 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:35:46

• my wife is hard to take care of 2 kid if I am checked for visa回复 -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:40:01

• Get a baby-sitter to help your wife, or send your kid to day car -ilovemomidad- ♂ (52 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:44:50

• Your idea is great, I will get a baby-sitter回复：Get a baby-sitter -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:50:27

• I think you can use premium processing -ilovemomidad- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:42:46

• Sorry, I don't know what you mean, I only heard LC premium proce -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:52:40

• he meant h1b extension pp, but you don't need it now -gc2020- ♂ (129 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:56:37

• thanks for your explanation, but sorry for misunderstanding his -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:04:44

• 回复：Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -phate2006- ♂ (217 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:33:29

• 排除万难, 不要犹豫, 回去看看你的母亲吧! -ilovemomidad- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:34:19

• CO-排除万难, 不要犹豫, 回去看看你的母亲吧! -sweetsweety- ♀ (29 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:55:29

• Thank you very much, guys!!!!! I decide to go back China回复：CO-排除 -pooroldman- ♀ (75 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:00:55

• 联系医生,打乙肝预防针. -mytwocentss- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:46:10

• Thanks for your reminding me for vacciation, mytwocents!!!!!! -pooroldman- ♀ (26 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:34:16

• 回复：Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -苯人- ♀ (239 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:47:45

• 回复：Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -flypush- ♂ (185 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:51:08

• 回复：Help me deicide whether or not to go back China, please!!!!! -yinyue- ♀ (73 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 12:54:08

• I never got Hepatitis B immunization( from countryside) 回复：回复：He -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:46:37

• You have to go to see your mother last minute!!!!!!!!!!! -tamade- ♀ (282 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:19:32

• 这种事情居然还要别人帮你考虑 -bpc2001- ♂ (76 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:35:00

• Did you have kids? how does your wife take care of 2 kids,回复：这种事 -pooroldman- ♀ (36 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:56:31

• find a baby sitter, specially your wife is a working mom -sweetsweety- ♀ (20 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 13:58:52

• or take one kid with you go back to China -sweetsweety- ♀ (63 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:04:41

• I am from far away countryside, my wife worries about missing my -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 14:08:05

• go back anyway! you can get everything back except mother. -9511- ♂ (9 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 15:16:38

• 我看了很难过，这些就是你不能回去看母亲的理由？说得出口？？？ -小猪胖乎乎- ♀ (48 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 16:21:15

• H1-B , GC, you need all these just for making more money -sffamily- ♂ (52 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 17:05:32

• 你要是这样就不去见你妈妈最后一面的话。我从心里鄙视你。 -wow66- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 18:51:00

• 同感。一定要去看她，其他事情尽力而为，可以带一个孩子回国。 -荷叶- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 20:13:52

• 你妈临终，你居然还如此自私的考虑这些？不光是绿卡的问题！ -Tanna- ♀ (616 bytes) () 07/09/2007 postreply 22:57:59

• They are 乙肝diseases, not 病毒携带者回复：你妈临终，你居然还如此自私的考虑这些？不光是绿卡的问题！ -pooroldman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/10/2007 postreply 11:27:21