回复：本来不应该judge的，看了坛子里有许多关于离婚绿卡申请的案例，

I have nothing to say about this. It is beyond ration and philosophy. Religion? I don't know. So many people do things that they know are not right. If love is according to ration, will there still be love and happiness? However, admit or not, love is the foundation of marriage. How could any thing else keep him or her from leaving? The Green Card issue just cause extra problem, that is all, but I don't think it is the doom of days. God let it happen, and life continues after whatever trouble that have occurred. Should people judge? Who cares. It is your own life that you have to live after all. They can judge and entertain themselves about your life. That's their own right.