请教: 法居士, 我见等在座朋友们,

My I140 was approved, but I485 is pending. I have a girl friend in China. I was wondering How long she will wait to get greencard if I marry her after I get Greencard. I heard that it is pretty long, about 5 years, is it true?

If I go back to China now with AP to marry her, I will lose H1B status, so she can not apply H4 and still can not come with me.

I really don't know how to do it well. I appreciate your kind hep.

多谢