MDGG, please help.

I was diagnosed to have T-cell lymphoma and it's very aggressive. Currently I just finished one cycle Hyper-CVAD. And my doctor recommands allogeneic stem cell transplant once I achieved complete remission. Considering 30% allogeneic transplant mortality rate I really don't want to do that if I can avoid. Would you please give me some advice on this? Please recommand a good doctor and a good place to do transplant for me. Is it possible to achieve complet remission after 2 more cycle Hyper-CVAD? Do you have some suggestions on food?

Any information will be highly appreciated. You may write me an email or post your message here. And if there's a chance to talk to you it will be terrific.

Thanks a lot in advance.