I would support you.

Most likely, this patient will go vegetated for the rest of her life.

Saying that she will go home soon is irresponsible.

Our Chinese patients do not have a habit to trust our docs yet.

Sorry about WanEr's situation. At a lot of time, it is hard to make that decision which would prove to be the best in the future. Once the patient is 100% stablized in her vegetated condition, you lose the window to withdraw the care. Then the family and the patient will sufer for a long long time, just like shavo's family..