My friend had 2 abortions in her younger days while in China
She had her first daughter at age 24. At 39, she was dying to have another child and went through IVF using a donor sperm. She had her 2nd daughter at 40 some. The two abortions she had in China stayed with her the whole life till this day. What I am trying to say, don't make this decision lightly - it will stay with you your whole life!