很好的选择，主要是便宜太多了

如果到了吃喝拉撒都在床上的时候，北京一个保姆一个月1-2万人民币可以找到（人工物理排便）， 2-3线城市的更便宜；美国这1-2万美元一个月可能还没有这个服务？
美国这assistant living nursing home, 平均只能活一年了，怀疑被屎尿憋死（并发症）的比例不少？
In the past, the national average has been around two years. Today, the national average is closer to one year. 
https://seniorservicesofamerica.com/blog/what-is-the-average-length-of-stay-in-assisted-living/#:~:text=as%20You%20Need-,How%20Long%20Does%20the%20Average%20Person%20Stay%20in%20Assisted%20Living,is%20closer%20to%20one%20year.