you just proved my point

...which is you are a bit narrow-minded. The hu*****and in my case had serious health issues with his back but was not dying. He could still go out to work (but not the restaurant type of work). That's why he went back to China continuing teaching in the middle school. Obviously, he was a pride guy and did not want to depend on his wife. You see? It is not about health care, it is about finding the life that suited their situation. It is not our role to judge whether they made the right decision for themselves. We just need to be considerate, not judgmental. I an not attempting to convince you here, because you are probably inconvincale. The take-home point is that we need to think positively about other people.