I need some help.

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Obviously I am a stupid idiot. I have to confess. I had an five-year affair with a colleague (I am single, he has family). In the end of last year he turned me in (to his family) because we did fighting for some reason. Then it seems everthing is over. The guy is screwed by his wife, in the past several months his wife (japanese housewife, 7 years older than the hu*****and) never stops fighting with him, but claimed cannot live without him, although the poor guy is already kicked out of his house. I have never thought I would marry the guy, so I have never told anybody about this, for me maybe just for pleasure (laugh). At beginning I felt guilty to the family, but after the wife blocked my way on the way home, played theatre (shock, scream) in front of my door, followed me all the way home after my working, I become cool. Now the lady has the idea--blackmailing, she wants 300008364; from me for compensation, of course after she gets the money she still lives with her hus. If I refuse to give the money, she still goes on her show forever, she claims that she will tell my other colleagues (a big threaten to her hus.). What should I do now? I need some advice, although I knew I was completely wrong.

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• 既然知道错了，就承担后果。 -无忌你是谁？- ♂ 给 无忌你是谁？ 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:08:28

• 那就用最简单直接的方法吧。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (50 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:15:16

• why do you ask here for help? -xtd- ♀ 给 xtd 发送悄悄话 xtd 的博客首页 (37 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:18:22

• 啊，侬蛮来赛的嘛，。。。。。 -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (17 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:20:42

• 很难说，谁错了， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (79 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:19:25

• For the 1st time, 老欧 is so lovely. -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:21:07

• 我搞不懂，这个是什么数字？ 300008364 -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:26:15

• 有什么事情也可以难倒你这个 Pretty 老欧？ -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:29:33

• 30k euro -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:31:35

• 够买一个杀手了，彻底解决问题。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:32:38

• oh yes, he is not only lovely, but also cute, very cute. -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (41 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:26:32

• 呵呵，你一样来赛，english 随开开，。。。 -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:28:56

• 这点点阴沟里洗还是小凯司啦。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (16 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:31:50

• 老欧,need your opinion, thanks -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (535 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:30:55

• 应该考虑让她 quiet forever。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:34:40

• I dare not -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:38:08

• 那如果你预计你的公司发展趋势比较好，也比较赚得到钞票， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (238 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:52:08

• 30K不是30万 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:53:49

• 啊，就 30K 啊，那就干脆点，小意思， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (32 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:56:09

• almost 1 year salary, so 1 year work for nothing as slave -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:03:37

• 要么再谈谈生意，50%？ -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (90 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:25:38

• True, I even wouldnot like to show I am weak, -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (181 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:31:32

• 恩，如果是这样，最好是其它地区，最好是外地， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (124 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:39:40

• 回复：那如果你预计你的公司发展趋势比较好，也比较赚得到钞票， -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (202 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:02:12

• 如果我没有理解错的话那30K就是要你支付的打炮费？ -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (18 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:04:32

• 那你就把那个日本老婆介绍给老欧打几炮嘛。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (18 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:06:28

• The guy also suggested that the wife look for some -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (254 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:11:51

• I'm sure 老欧 will really like her。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (95 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:18:18

• 还是你的主意最好,哈哈 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:21:33

• 之手两全其美的解决方法嘛。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (60 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:23:30

• 我要向你学习~~~~~ -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:24:27

• 你既然敢玩火就应该承担后果 -jjjjjj123456- ♀ 给 jjjjjj123456 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 12:35:06

• 这种事直接报警就好了 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:39:16

• 报警怎么说啊？ -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (42 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:43:10

• I did not grab. -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:47:32

• My conclusion is: the guy has mid-age crisis -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:48:35

• 那个日本女人要钱说的话就行啦 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (89 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:52:50

• If eventually no other options, I will do so. Then 1 or 2 enemie -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:55:15

• 奥地利，是这样的，属于真爱，真爱就无敌， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (16 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:53:42

• I am afraid of being knocked in the middle of the night, -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (208 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:58:57

• 事实上也是一个主意,但是如果那个女人跟踪你,不是还能找到? -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (15 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:02:27

• 真倒霉，被人家困了，还要付钞票， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (54 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:18:28

• I also thought so, what really annoys me -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:21:54

• 那男人也够蠢的,这不是明摆着把自己当鸭卖么 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:23:29

• 穷山恶水出刁民，那些瘪 三 穷人才不管呢， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (30 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:28:02

• maybe he doesnot care. He got pleasure, his wife -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (36 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:28:23

• 那老欧你就付钱去把那个日本老婆困回来吧。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:25:11

• 别神经兮兮，人家在说正经事情， -europe- ♂ 给 europe 发送悄悄话 europe 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:28:57

• If so, everybody knows it, should I care or not? -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (467 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:45:48

• 警察又不是大话精,为啥会人人都知道了呀? -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (22 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:57:09

• let me give th emoney to his wife to console her. -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (62 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:05:29

• Thanks for saying the same thing as myself -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:13:35

• 这男人台不是东西了,这钱是绝对不能给的 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:19:31

• 不给钱好像不行的吧？ -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (50 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:27:08

• If not, maybe everything will be a disaster -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (130 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:35:18

• 你这么怕,还是去别的城市找份新工作,搬家吧 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:38:18

• 人应该向前看，旧的不去，新的不来。 -fight-again- ♀ 给 fight-again 发送悄悄话 (158 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:40:21

• 个么先问问老欧,zzy童鞋3年炮付了几个钱,参考一下 -wienermelange- ♀ 给 wienermelange 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:35:35

• Thanks a lot, Answer your guys later, now leave, sorry -stupididiot2000- ♀ 给 stupididiot2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:38:39

• 五年够长了, 只是Affair吗? 那就躲; 不是, 就跟她斗一斗吧 -claudia0708- ♀ 给 claudia0708 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 13:46:07

• 你的做法本身就不道德！如果你有丈夫，你不介意他和别的女人有染？将心比心！ -reader-only- ♂ 给 reader-only 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/19/2009 postreply 00:57:58

• 切! AFFAIR本来就是理直气壮的人身自由,让她闹去,把钱来给俺俺替你煽她去 -雇农- ♂ 给 雇农 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/20/2009 postreply 06:23:34

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