回复：which nationality is she? Do you own her anything?

Well, it is not I was scared of her very much, but just because of our experience. It was very hard for her and me finally to get together and married in USA. so I tried to save this marriage for us and for our son. My dream was she might get matured and know how to handle the life in someday. Disappointedly, she just went to the opposite way, and walked too far. If I had anything such as a hidden life, she would maximize her benefits with no hesitation