回复：想离婚

他临上班前说“算了，我们在美国都不容易，就不要给对方找麻烦了”我还是那句话“我没什么好给你说的，我什么都不想说

So, he also gave up, but you did not give him the chance. You need to give him a chance. You may not know man, and try to treat each other like a friend, you will be ok.