来，浇盆冷水：Chris Rock有句名言：

Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally; men are loved under the condition of what they can provide. 

再加把火--Reddit上有个老哥抱怨：

If you don't open up about your feelings you're a toxic man. If you do, you're either being rude or being a pu**y. We're only supposed to have the CORRECT feelings, at the correct time, at everyone else's convenience.