太同意了:

来源: 2011-12-16 14:53:46 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:

"在国外生活恰恰就是没人搭理你,事实上他们自己也是谁也不搭理谁,除了你的家人和仅有的朋友"

this is the result of that so-called privacy. this is why so many people are depressed.
human being are social animals. We are more like wolfs, running in packs, not like cats.