You see what you want to see,在被裁的一刻，你是非常vulnerable 的，你把

所有的羞辱仇恨都投射到了她的脸部表情

You see what you want to see

you hear what you want to hear 

you feel what you want to feel

自从明白了这个paragraph, 我心中的畏惧减少了很多

Good luck