回复：我对你的明察秋毫真得很敬仰,请你详细说说我是什么样的心理.

Regarding soft skills - Americans here have connections here and now in American soil but you and I don't have - see that?
Go ask an american to learn similar things in the Chinese Communist Party's bureaucracy ladder - similar things as you were talking about here.
Anyone with more than 2 years experience in US corporate world know it's MOSTLY about politics - after all not that much from the Chinese world.