the following words may be tough:

来源: 于 2015-07-16 11:02:30 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读：次

"可我实在不擅长主动开口说这些事"

just learn how to do it. It is not an excuse for you and ur family, ur children. if u just refuse to learn, it is ur own problem; u deserve it then.