我今天又看了一遍你的帖子，你说的几件事情都很容易处理。但是估计你没有经验，所以不知所措。比如说他

用严厉的口气指责你、教训你。如果他是在大庭广众之下对你来这种训孙子的态度，你当时马上可以当众跟他指出，非常professional的告诉他：“I don't like the way you talk to me. ” 然后马上教训他，跟他说他必须说话尊重你： I expect you to respect your colleague. 然后口头警告他：Be careful the way you talk to me. Now every one here is my witness. This is not the first time you mistreat me and I let you go during the past. I won't this time. Take this as my verbal warning, or you will need to talk to some one. 我保证你扔下这几句话，他得当龟孙子当很久。