I replied directly to 乡下来的人. So it is 100% relevant to 乡下来的人's p

As for OP's problem

If the OP is very close to getting her GC, she will have to suck it up.  She perhaps should not have asked this question.

However, if it is still a long winding road for her,  she needs to think hard about this.  A c

In general, how to survive (yes, SURVIVE) under a micro-manager is for suckers only.