有自己的business是很幸福、很值得自豪的事,it's called:
你现在的想法,翻译一下就是:不愿意喂养自己的亲生子,却憧憬着去别人家当奶妈,而且还要交钱去拿家政服务上岗证。
I dare to say, how very much disappointed your life partner / business partner would feel.