看似你老板这次不太讲情面,没给你面子。She doesn't owe you one, though you thought you deserve it.
"老板对平常我因私事要求的迟到早退还是接受的还不错" --也许没你想象得那么大方,正好借这个机会敲打你一下。
德国人本来就比较刻板。员工要是牛叉,老板迁就员工;否则,员工就得将就老板。