You judge the private life of other people, who you don't even k

Is it fair trial?

Seems you do know some guys who went back to China and cheated their wives. So do I, and I feel sorry for their families. But, when somebody we don't personally know of posts a question over here about going back to China, does he automatically deserve being treated like he has committed a crime based on a stranger's wild imaginations? Further more, because of some men's misdemeanors, is every each male automatically under the judgement of such hash questions?

I could pray that God lead me not into temptation, while I don't think 扪心自问 would ever resolve any problems in the troubled world. So, why bother asking myself those lame questions? That's the point.