面试和当奴隶都要两相情愿,不中就不去.

Interview is a business process, they interview you, you also interview them.

You chose what is the best for you rand your family.

Unless you are a top expert in this field (like me), otherwise, the cadidate is in a weaker position during the interview process.

Candidate will become stronger once her/him has more offers in hands.

Thanks!