回复：诚心请教大家

"越过管理层直接向HR去告我, 好象是说我大声训斥辱骂她之类"
-- Depends on what kind of company it is, and depends on what kind of manager you have, this kind situation can bring very bad result.
-- The larger the company size, the more serious HR handle this kind of case.
-- Better be careful.
-- Yes, you need explain, you need tell HR the truth.

Thanks!