1. Friendly. 2. No need to think you need to 拉拢.

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No need to think they'll 排斥 you. However, if you feel you'll need to 拉拢 someone or you feel someone will 排斥 you, you probably can convince yourself that you are right but that doesn't mean that other 高人 agree with you.