回复：好不容易拿到OFFER，女儿不想搬家，真是气死我了

(soft touch) try to ask for her favor. ask her to help family.

(reasoning) mom needs work to make money for her college tuition...

(reward) offer her new laptop plus ipod plus $1000 to buy clothes at mall. promise a car she likes. ..... (you know what she likes)..

(if there is a boy she likes, then Bum! you can't success. lol)