这封经理的信有“暧昧”的意思吗？

这两天和老公冷战，原因就是他看到经理的这封信（见下），说什么经理对我别有用心，最好换组或换工作。我和这位经理以及组里其他成员相出不错，不想换，结果他就说我喜欢这种暧昧的感觉。简直气死我了! 今天我就把这封信拿处来给职场的高手们看一看，这封信到底有没有问题？

起因是：我写email向经理请三个星期的假。背景：我和这个新经理才共事三个月，没有什么私交。见面就是开会谈工作。好像没私下里谈过别的闲话。可能间面寒暄过两句周末去哪里玩过之类的，最多两三次而已。可老公说问题就在这儿，如果不熟习，为什么还用什么 cross fingers和什么think about you之类的话。难到这些词异性同事之间不能用吗？

还有前不久，我刚刚被这个经理额外奖励了两千刀，当时老公挺高兴的，可看了这封信就翻脸了，说什么这是经理在利诱我。我前一段可真是起早摸黑地干活。这道好，成了用色象换的了。#@%$@%这女银干点工作怎么事儿就这么多呢? _:mad: _:mad:

请职场有经验的人看看，是老公小心眼，还是我神经大条（好像是台湾话，找不着更好的形容词了，先借用一下。）多谢！


X.

I completely understand and will support whatever you decide to do. First, I'm sorry to hear your mom has a tumor. I hope it's not too serious. I'll keep my fingers crossed that the procedure goes smoothly, the doctors are able to completely remove it, and she makes a full recovery. Second, I can see your hesitation traveling with two small children and caring for them and your mom. However, if you are able to go, I think your mom will appreciate having you there for support. I'm an only child myself, so I know the special relationship you have with your family.

This is certainly plenty of advance notice, so we can make arrangements to cover your assignments while you're away. Don't let work factor into your decision making process at all. We'll be fine. The most important thing is for you to do what's best for your mom and your family. Just confirm with me what you decide, and let me know if you need anything else. I'll be thinking about you and your family. Thanks, X.

Best regards,

D.