你是怎么和他提的呢? 你可以这么说:

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I want to hear your thoughts about my career development in this company/group/etc..
Can I schedule a meeting with you?

如果他的反应是,我很忙, BLAH BLAH. 那就说明他真不关心你的发展.
如果他说,sure, check my calendar and schedule it. 你就有机会和他谈了.