回复：我再给你概括一下吧;

Not really.

Not only one man. There are so many people love me and I love them: my parents, my children, my sister and brother, my friends, my ............. Ideally, it is good to 有个男人愿意和你优雅地变老, but you can 优雅地变老 without a man too. Most important thing here is: love yourself, love your own life, and love others.